Everything happen for a reason

PROBLEMS, this word always haunted us every single day, it may arise as a simple or could be in a very complex situation and need a tough decision to be made in order to move on.  Without problem our daily life would be such a boring and dull routine. When we talk about problem one thing would appear on our mind, "problem means negative". However, did anyone realize that sometimes problem happen due from the positive things as well.

Everybody must be confused and wonder why am I saying this, well let me share one situation here. Arianna is a very bright girl who used to be so confident about everything, as she is a very bright girl some other girls would envy her. Those envy girls always looking for Arianna's loop and try to influence others. Arianna didn't do anything wrong but her positive attitudes contributes some problems to her.  In order to solve this Arianna need to think about how she perceived the situation at the very beginning, if she look at it in negative side automatically it would turn out to be negatively but if she look at it from positive side it will become positive.

How to turn negative things to become positive? Let say you were good at something and people always talk about it, it may be in a positive tone or could be in negative tone depend on how people perceived it, people may badmouth about your skills saying as if you were showing off but actually they just being jealous as they were not good at it; to shut their mouth, its easy get close to them then ask them whether did they need help?? If they really need help they will ask you,meaning you going to do good thing (teaching them) if they not eventually they will stop badmouth as they feel ashamed on you, and you also win here! :)
Till then keep thinking positive no mater how negative it was because everything happen for a reason. 

What is so good about Facebook???

Nowadays almost everyone get interacted with social network such as Facebook, Twitter, Tagged and etc. Some people might thinking what is the power of this site and why everyone love to get involved with it so much?? Some might thinking why would I spent so much time in this, its virtually its not real? Why should I posted what I felt and tell entire of the world what I've been go through..

Let's we think it in positive way :), Facebook motto is "connecting people", why don't we used it wisely. For me through Facebook I get chances to meet lots of very good people which I never expected before :D. Through Facebook we can close some gaps between each other, even we live far distance (different countries) but through Facebook we connected to each other everyday. When we got a chance we travel and meet each other, we enjoying so much fun together :). Not only that sometime we learn from each other. Different people got different perspective but through Facebook we managed to close those gap isn't it wonderful?? I might be bias through this statement but let us think for a seconds, anything if we use it wisely; in a right way the impact would be in a positive way , its just how we use it, you choose in positive way it turn out to be positive if you used it wrongly then it turn to be negatively. Till then happy connecting people :)

TRUST vs LOVE

It's been so long since my last post, I was so busy these days..Lots of things happening around me and every single day I keep thinking how should I express it into words.Today I decided to write something on my own blog plus trying to finish my words with one of my close friend as I promise him to share my experiences regarding my spring trip, I believe I can do it :)

What am I going to write today?? Last time I wrote a short notes at my Facebook, LOVE vs TRUST. People have their own perception regarding this, if you were given a choice which one are you going to choose? My word doesn't change, I still choosing trust, for me TRUST is the important keys in any friendship or relationship, but its not easy to gain TRUST especially from strangers. People telling me, we can fall in love in one second but for TRUST it may takes some time, so when we gain TRUST from someone we should appreciate it because once the TRUST is broken then its not easy to gain it back or if we are able to gain it back its not the same as the previous one.

When TRUST is build between two, even if there is a mistake or misunderstanding and we tend to get mad; try to hold our angry by thinking about TRUST. Its a good way to manage your emotional and keep thinking positive. In short, we can simply fall in LOVE and we must remember as it simply happen, it also easy to fade away compare to TRUST, its hard to gain trust and its also hard to broken :)