Unconditional LOVE

When we talk about LOVE, normally people will focus on love between lovers, but for me LOVE is universal and it can be with anything. I still remember long time ago, a good friend of mine telling me; never LOVE someone conditionally. If you LOVE someone because of their looks, good looks will eventually fade away, if you LOVE someone for their wealth, it can be finished, if you LOVE someone because of their career it can be vanished if he or she make even a simple mistake. However, these days its hard to LOVE people unconditionally due to an environment and so on but that doesn't mean everyone must agreed with me. I've seen a lots of unconditional LOVE around me lately. People must be wonder how am I ensure its unconditionally LOVE, well I am writing these based with my own experience.Anyway do you guys knows what is unconditionally LOVE or real LOVE is?? Real LOVE means caring about the happiness of another person without any thought for what we might get for ourselves. Have you seen your kids, nieces or nephews LOVE someone unconditionally? when we asking them why do they LOVE him or her, their answer would be "I don't know" and the funny part is they never meet him or her!! I've got lots of friends through Facebook but I've got only one very close person and we live far distance, don't get me wrong I am not going to talk about us but I will talk about my kids (nieces and nephews) unconditional love towards him and vice versa. Before this my kids never meet him in reality, they just seeing each other through Skype and chatting on Facebook but somehow the bonding between them were very strong. :)  Can't you imagine a two years old girl can recognize him even though she couldn't speak clearly, :p so funny isn't it?? A six years old and a four years old girls fight with each other telling that they wanna marry him when they grown up! I was like speechless for a while..hahah.. :P These days first things my kids would do once they arrived at my house is to ask whether did he online?Sometimes I have to tell my kids that he was too busy, but that doesn't make them to stop loving him, they will asking me to record their videos for him or at least taking their picture.Some of them even draw a pictures for him or write a letter for him and ask me to post to him. :D My kids willing to do all these without expecting anything from him and didn't feel it as a duty. They were happy doing all these for him :) With all those efforts they were not only close to him but also being close to me. Its' such an amazing thing for me as before this they were not talking to me much, people telling me if you have money you can buy anything but for LOVE and TRUST money doesn't includes. On the other hand, his love towards my kids is undeniable as well, even though he's so busy but he still allocate some times to watch my kids videos or chat; Skype with them. I really appreciate for what he's doing. Sometimes he advised my kids on how to behave or choosing their path on their study. :) Not only that he also bought toys and candies for my kids, and my kids were very happy to received all those :) Recently he got leaves and decided to come at my home town for meeting my kids. We were very happy for his visit. At the very beginning most of my kids were very shy towards him, but slowly they try to adapt with him and they playing almost half day!! I can see true happiness in each face. Even though it was a short trip but everybody enjoy it. :) I wish all of us can meet again someday :)

I'm back!

Due to my hectic schedules and lots of things happening around me its been so long since I left this. Here we go again, as Holy blessing month of Ramadhan is come near to the end I felt I still need to catch up lots of things as we never know whether we still have a chance to meet this holy blessing month in the future, but still its never to late to buckle up. In this holy blessing month as a Muslim, we were encourage to prayer and recite al-Quran a lot. Sometimes due to our busy daily schedule we tend to forget about it but when we were facing difficulties only then we will realize we need a guide. When it comes to a guide people must be thinking a person but as a Muslim we should put Allah as our priority guide, let Allah listen to your problem and ask Him for a guide. Someone asking me before, whether am I ready to move to somewhere and embrace my Islam to the community there, at the beginning I think about it roughly but when I heard a reason, it makes me think twice. However before making a decision, I myself need to learn a lot about it and everything in between. Anyway personally I feel thankful to Allah for giving me a second thought about this, and to the person who asking that question thank you, Insya'llah one day I will move there and embrace my Islam.Have a bless and great day ahead everyone. :)