2012 Achievements!

Time really flies, without realizing it, we only got another 4 days left before welcoming 2013..I believe everybody have a lot of things in their mind, perhaps thinking about their achievements for this year, mistakes done throughout the year, how to improve our own self and lots more.

Personally, for this year I've got several achievement myself. When I look back, I don't believe that I've done those. Before this I never thought of doing certain things but I achieved it!!

One of my biggest achievement for this year is I've conquered my fear!!Well, believe or not I am a person who get really scared of needles, medical check up and all related. I never offered my self to go to the hospital except when I was really sick. If I catch cold or having mild sickness, I just bought medicine at pharmacy and eat it until fully recovered. Heheh. Yes I have some sickness but I'm on prescription so if I  get sick I just took my prescription and not going for checking up .LOL.

Since I was young my mom telling me I was AB blood type, so whenever people asking I will tell them I am AB blood type without any doubt. As I never went for medical check up, I believe the fact that I was AB blood type until one of my close friend told me to go for body check up. At first I refused, as I am very terrified of needles but my close friend told me if I refused something going to happen. As I don't have any other choice I turn myself in for needles. When I got the result, I was like @_@! What a very shocked result!!"Is the result is valid or perhaps did the doctor wrongly testing blood!" Since I can't believe the result I asked the doctor to retest my blood type! Hahaha. Yet I got the same result.. I was O blood type! I am very thankful and grateful to God for not putting me into any huge accident or something that need blood transfer, if not I might die now. Thank you very much to my close friend, I don't know how to repay you!! Without your forcing I might still knowing that I am AB blood type..You save my life!^^

My second achievement is I own my personal blog. Since I was young, I love to write but I never thought of putting it into blog and share to the entire world! Well here we are! Even though I didn't received any comments but I got readers from whole globe :)..Thank you dear readers for spend some time to read my thought! Really appreciate it and please do not hesitate to drop any comment here, I won't bite you! LOL. This blogging idea was come from another close friend.. Thanks to him for encourage me to start blogging. You can visit his blog too ^^ Lex Paradise

My third achievement is for the first time I went overseas trip with my friends. I love to travel and I don't plan much for travel. I preferred to travel as bag packers instead of having arrangement by travel agent. Yes we have about a year to prepare, but we haven't prepared much! Its not a big deal for travelling as bag packers in your own country, as language is not a barrier, and you were familiar with your own culture. However when travelling to other countries, you need to prepare few things. You can check it out here. Let's get away

My fourth achievement is I have improved in family relationship. Before this I am not very closed to my siblings, nephews and nieces. I try to get close to them but I failed. I think it is because I can't forgive and forget some issues with them. However someone have changed it for me and with the guide I managed to get close to them, forgive and forget everything. I am very happy and thankful for the guide. ^^ Love you all!! ^^

Last but not least, is my fifth achievement which is doing something that I once dreamed. Well this achievements is quite personal and I can't share it here >_<, sorry! However I really enjoy those moments and I knew its hard or it might be impossible to rewind it back or do it again in the future.....

P/S: Wishing good health to everybody and able to achieve lots more on 2013. ^^

211212

21-12-12, such a beautiful date to be, but some people believe that according to Mayan Calendar it's going to be Dooms day. Do you believe that??

When I heard this for the first time, I was like "What is on their mind??"Since when human being become God?and telling certain date would be the end of this world??If human being become God, then whats the point of given birth and so on..

As far as I'm concern there is no such exactly date was given in any religions regarding to Dooms day. It's only stated how it's going to be, the sign of it, but there is no exactly date. If there is date was given then every each of use will become as good as angel and not making any sins.

Another fact that will makes your mind blown away is as it was stated on 21-12-12, all of us known the fact that our world kept moving; so in certain countries they become noon and in some other part they are still night. For example Fiji and New Zealand will having sunrise first so these countries will turn to 21-12-12 and its going to be Dooms day? However, look at the time at USA, they are still having a night of 20-12-12, so Dooms day will be 20-12-12 at certain place and 21-12-12 at the other place?? Such a ridiculous thinking right?? If its going to be Dooms day, it's going to be simultaneously in every place so how come human being gave exactly date of Dooms day?

Then I search for more information and found out another funny part. Hahhah! Some people were prepared for a Dooms day! They bought a tan stock of food, making a machine or a place to hide in! What a non-sense preparation, LOL,don't we aware of the fact that when Dooms day come everything would be wrecked!! Not even tiny creatures survived, so whats the point of buying those foods and making a place to hide in??Even there is one place at Maldives, a hotel which offered while waiting for Dooms day you can relax yourself by watching fishes around you! When it was Tsunami people run for their life and for Dooms day people were trying to hide below the sea?? Hahah, doesn't make sense at all!!

Be the Best you can be!!

Dear readers,

As the time passes by,it's already towards the end of 2012. When I looked back on what happens along in this year I was like @_@.Did I achieved any of my personal resolutions?? Then I'm thinking back, did I ever make any resolutions early this year?? Hahha, I didn't make any ^^ so how am I going to achieve it?

Most people think resolutions is one of important aspect in their life as it will navigate them throughout the year. However for me, I don't need any resolutions to get through everything. Don't get me wrong, it's not that I am thinking I'm the best or perfect, it's just why would you make any resolutions if you were not trying your best to achieve it??

Every new year I just tell myself this "it's a new beginning, new hope, new dreams, new life so what are you waiting for?? Be the best you can be in everything! If others can do why don't you??". I knew others might think its hard to be the best in everything, but only you, yourself knows whats the best in you. Only ourselves knows our own limit, however that doesn't mean just give up if you can't achieve it, keep trying until you felt there is no more hope and pray for the best.

Sometimes when we think, nothing more I can do to solve this and give up is the only way.Its actually a wrong decision indeed! In some cases, miracle happens at the end and we never knew it until we lose it.

I know miracles does not happens every time and in every cases but all you need to do is push yourself up to your last limit because only then you will know how strong you are. ^^

Let's Get Away!!

Do you guys love travelling?? Normally when you go for travelling do you go on your own, group or via packages? Some of us love to travel via packages where respective travel agent will set up everything for you and all you need to do is just to pay them. However for me, personally I love travelling on my own or in a group where we can experience a true get away!

I knew travelling on your own or in a group need a lot of things to be considered. Everything have to be planned before start travelling, not necessarily well planned because sometimes it change due to the situation but rough planned should be noted down. In your planned at least you should search a few of place to stay either hotel,hostel, motel or guesthouse (must be accordance to your budget).

Then you also should start to search attraction places to visit, includes how to go to these places, do it need fees entries and other amenities such as can you get food around those places. Next aspect need to be considered is whether your hotel,hostel, motel or etc is easy to access publicly, this is importance as it will helps you to mingle around with public transport or you just can walk around on your foot.

However the most important aspects need to be check before travelling are listed below:

1- Check your validity of Passport, and fill in the emergency information.
2-Leave your copy itinerary and passport data page in your e-mail, your family and some friends.
3- Check your overseas medical insurance coverage
4-Familiarize yourself with local conditions, law and culture
5-Take precautions to avoid being a target of a crime
6-List down your family contact numbers in case of emergency.
7-List down your Embassy or Consulate contact numbers and information too
8- Make a simple note regarding your blood type, any allergy or medical prescription consumed.

Seems everything were noted down, what are you waiting for??? Start plan your own Get Away!! Have fun!!

P/s: Don't forget to bring your camera!! A picture worth more than thousand words! ^^~

Where is our humanity?? Somehow some of us become MONSTER??

Dear Readers,
It's been quite long since my last post and I am thinking of writing something tonight, however when I read this news Pitt bull puppy having horrific journey my mind suddenly black out and I am speechless.

Seeing this injured dog, makes tears running down from my eyes. Even though I am a Muslim, and our religion forbid us to touch a dog but that doesn't mean we can simply hit dogs or killed them without any reasons. Somehow I don't understand why some people doing this to the helpless creatures. God give us brain to think which is good, which is bad but why some of us wrongly used it???

We can make a different!

Dear Readers,

Do you know what is the news headlines around the globe these days?? Some may think about disasters that occurred almost every where, be it typhoon, volcano eruption, flooded, earthquake and etc, some may think about the shrink of economic, or some may think about the instability in certain countries like Syria.

However  most of  us ignored about Israel, Palestine conflict. Anyway this conflict is not a new thing for all of us, it have been occurred since the late of 19th Centuries till now. Why it still continuing and it seems there is no way to end this crisis?? Its not that no one interested to end it but due to a lot of reasons the cease-fire always fail.

Recently, as Israel announced their new operation which is Pillar of cloud towards Palestine, they think its a good strategy to win the world. However they were wrong, by attacking innocent Palestine civilian especially women and children they have open up worlds hearts and eyes.

Even though most of media try to manipulate the news, due to the savvy technology these days we still can get the truth. As the truth came out, Palestine won de facto UN recognition of sovereign state. 138 countries votes in favor, 9 against and 41 abstentions. This winning will help them to upgrade, get more recognition and get a freedom in the future.Congratulation to Palestine!  For the truth news, check this out.

Harry Fear

P/s: Only then we would realized about the truth.. We can make a different!!

My Huge Family :D

It's been quite long since my last post.. I always intend to put a new post every day but due to works, environment and so on it quite hard to do so. Since "Durian feast" is still on-going at my house, it bright up my days too! I enjoyed it so much whenever my house were full with my people. As we gathered, its like we were having a party all day and night long!!With kids running around, a massive noise and a lot of FOOD, its really make my day!

Since almost every single day, my backyard were full with Durians, we create a new event here! It was call as "Tempoyak making session". This "tempoyak" making session was not only joining by adult but by kids too! One of my brother will tear the durian husk, another person will put it inside bowl, then we will start to separate the durian flesh and its seeds. This session taking a long time to finish as we got a lots of durians, so we put it into some shift! :P

During these Durian feast, most of my kids (nieces and nephews) enjoy it so much. After making the "tempoyak", normally their granny will grant them a night leave, which is going to the I-City (at my hometown). Here we will picnic and enjoy a night view of my hometown. Sometimes we will play soccer or volleyball together on afternoon.

As weekdays is back, so everybody disappear! :(  However, I got good news, one of my sister will coming back tomorrow with her kids! Yay, my house will get noise again! ^^~

King of Fruits!

Normally when we travel, what would be on our list? I've circulate this question around and basically the answer that I will get is a typical one which is of course places to visit, experience new culture and becoming food tester.

Becoming a food tester is not a new things. In almost every corner of the world we can taste different kind of cuisine due to the growth of foreign restaurants. That means no need to go to other countries still we can taste their cuisine. I knew some may disagree with me, tasting a cuisine from its origin is better as the cuisine taste is more authentic.

However, have you ever think about something else when you go travel, such as the taste of their local fruits?.For example in India, they were proud with a native fruit named "bael", while Thailand were widely known as  mango biggest plantation. I agree sometimes we can taste foreign fruits too as some countries export their local fruit worldwide but the cost for the fruit would be higher.

Anyway I'm not going to talk about those fruit but I will talk about my most proudly fruit which is "Durian". In South East Asia, Durian also known as King of Fruits. Durian can be in oblong or round shape, the husk of Durian normally in green to brown color. Durian flesh have distinctive odour which is a strong and penetrating stomach-churning odour.

Even though Durian have distinctive odour, the color of Durian flesh never fail to attract me! Durian is a seasonal fruit so we only can eat Durian during its seasons.  These days, Durian season is on at my country so wherever you go you can see people selling Durian.  For those who plan to visit my country, you can plan your visit during Durian's season so you can taste it here. For travelers who is present  (at my country) now don't miss a chance to taste Durian. Even it have strong ordor the flesh is savory and mouth watering! Nom Nom Nom ^^~~

p/s: My niece enjoying Durian so much! (picture)

LOVE at the first sight!

I believe in our daily life we hear music all of the times and every each of us have their own favorite music. Be it rock, pop, country, ballad, reggae or any other music genre,each of it have their own specialty. For me listening to the music is one of the best way to reduce my stress.

However did you know that through music we can recognize what kind of person we are?? People says anyone who love piano is a quiet person, but personally I disagree with that. I love piano melody very much but I'm not a quiet person! LOL. 

Perhaps those personality traits is just a coincidence. Some of it maybe true but after all it depend on the person him or herself. Anyway if any of you keen to know about personality traits based on music instrument, you can check it out here:  

http://martiecoetser.hubpages.com/hub/A-music-instrument-suits-a-specific-personality-dont-choose-the-wrong-music-instrument-for-your-child

As I love piano melody, I listen to it all of the time and recently I found out about Yiruma. I felt in love at the first sight once I listen to his music. One of my favorite is Kiss the rain. My office mate telling me " this seems a sad melody, why would you love it?" My answer? Sorry mate, I also don't know why but I love this melody" hahah ^_^

P/s: William Shakespeare once said this through his character of Lorenzo in The Merchant of Venice: 

     "The man that hath no music in himself, nor is not mov'd with concord of sweet     

       sounds, is fit for treasons, stratagems, and spoils."

 I didn't own this music or video. Credit to the artist: Yiruma & video uploaded: xXYuNPoOXx

 Enjoy!

Experience Life threatening???

Sometimes when we were having a very hard difficulties and it seems there is no way to overcome the problem some of us might think " I wish I just die so that I don't have to face all of these anymore". Have you guys experience that before? I believed most of us had experienced that once in our life.

However let say if you were facing the life threatening after saying those words what would be on your mind?   For someone who never experience this situation they might think this is nothing but for someone who's experienced it, first come on mind would be "Dear God, please let me still alive, I still have a lot of things to achieve,then appear families faces following closest friends faces."

Their faces will keep appear every single minutes and we will think how we treat them before, is it good enough?? then we will think " I wish I apologize for my sins to everybody and says dear God, please don't take me away, let me says sorry to them first.

For me, experience a life threatening is such a nightmare but it give me a second thought of appreciate everything around me and treat everyone around me nicely. Last but not least, we should apologize to everybody every day since we never know what will happen and are we able to see each other again tomorrow.

Forgive & Forget

Every single day as a human being we tend to do a lot of mistakes whether we realized it or not, and for every mistakes we do learn something new. However its not easy for us to admit our mistakes due to certain of reasons, perhaps because of environment around us, gender, perception or our personal value itself. Some people may think by admitting our mistakes its like revealing our weaknesses to the others but if we think about it properly by admitting our mistakes it will help us to improve ourselves. For example you knew that you making a mistakes today, if you keep it all to yourself, you will get upset and end up having a bad day; by admitting your mistakes and asking for apologize you will feel relieved even though you might not know whether your apologize is being accepted or not. I know its not an easy things to do but its not too late for us to do it as we never know whether did we still get a chance to breath again or not tomorrow...

Forgive and Forget, may your day will be shine and bless always :)

Ohhh My, I'm crazy for these!!!

I start to fall in love with this things when my cousin, her friend and myself went to a Korean town at Ampang. At first I was like, what?? BANANA MILK?? How can possible I try this kind of drink??Instead of banana milk I try Black soy bean drink, then my cousin told me, "Babe you should try this! I guarantee you will become addicted to banana milk afterwards". After thinking for a second, I told myself why not I give a try?. At the very first sip, I was like Whoaaaaa!! What a very tasty drink I've ever tried entire of my life! If only I knew it tasty like this I would definitely bought this drink instead of Black soy bean! 

A few months later, I went to South Korea, first thing that pop up on my mind when I reached there is BANANA MILK! As soon as we touch down, I quickly went to their 7 Eleven (at Incheon airport) and grab one banana milk!The next day when we reached Seoul, I bought 3 bottles of banana milk and enjoy it. Whenever we get a chance to stop by at 7 Eleven or Family Mart, each of us will grab few of banana milk.  

After enjoying it for 8 days, its time to leave, I wish I can buy banana milk and bring it back to my hometown  but as there are rules for not bringing some amount of liquid so I decided not to buy. Since that I keep thinking when will I got a chance to drink banana milk again. Yes we can get it at Korean Town or at some big shopping mall around KL but I live at rural area, its not worth it if I go to KL for banana milk! 

Then out of blue, someone decided to visit me. Come to the surprise I got 6 pack of banana milk!! I was like wow!! I'm speechless! I'm touch! I'm out of words, somehow I cannot remember how to show my gratitude. Hahahhaha! Unbelievable! I enjoy every pack of it to the maximum! Thank you so much for bringing it to me, really appreciate it. :)

After a while, my sis in law told me that her friend was looking for South Korea information. On my mind was aha! Another chance to enjoy banana milk! I help her via FB and I am glad she enjoy her trip there. I wish I can be there too! Before she left, I ask her to buy some banana milk for me. She did and post to me :) Sound crazy isn't it? ^^~ 

Recently I went to Thailand, when I entered their 7 Eleven, my eyes keep glance around for banana milk, at first I couldn't see it, if only I snap my frustration face. ^^~, I slowly look at the rack again and guess what!! BANANA MILK!, I felt I wanna jump right there! Luckily I still manage to control myself! ^^~, hehe.. I bought 2 pack of banana milk and enjoy it. When we reached at Krabi, I bought another 4 pack myself. Then we heading to some other place, I bought another two pack! When we reach Phuket, I bought 20 pack of banana milk to bring back home!! Ohhh really I am addicted to it! Before leave I bought another 2 pack. ^^~ These days I got 14 pack left.. ^^~  However once I finish it I have to wait for few more months to enjoy it again T_T.. Anyway in the future I wish I can get it at 7 Eleven around my hometown! I hope I can get it easily everywhere I go :) I love banana milk! <3

My Secret!!

Dear Readers,

I believe everyone have their own weapons for keeping them happy all the time. Through hard, sad, stress time what would you guys do?I  know say a prayer is the best way but except that is there are any ways you guys would do?? Some says eating will help them a lot (But this habit will gain weight) ^_^, some says sleeping is the best way! However if I am having difficulties I can't sleep, as my brain kept running! Some says playing games! Hmm, for me I guess this will create more tense!! Ahh, one of my friend says performing house chores will help her! Her house would be shining as sunlight I guess! ^_^ Any other suggestions?? Reading? My mind would be numb and I can't concentrate at all! Writing? Blogging? Might be to some other people. For me??Not much helping..

Wonder how I would overcome my problems? Stressful? Everyday people keep asking me how can you smile or laughing whenever you were having problems? My answer is simple I bring four most precious things everywhere every single day. What would that be?? Who gave those precious stuff?

These four precious stuffs are from four people who influence me a lot in my life. Those gift really meaningful to me.I can't even think if I lost one of it! First, would be my necklace :) A simple design yet make me happy all the time! It was a gift from my birth mom :).

Second stuff is my tot bag, I never miss to carry it to work every single day!Don't get confused! My handbag is another story. ^^~  Anyone can imagine what would be inside my tot bag?? A lot! Medicine, My small notes, cookies, Chocolate, toothbrush set, my cutlery set and the list still goes on!! ^^~~ My office mate always telling me this "Aishah, carrying "Doraemon bag" all the time! XD This Doraemon bag was a gift from my virtual/ adopt mom :)

The third precious stuff is a photo,readers might wonder why I'm saying that this photo is a precious stuff to me. Well a single photo worth more than thousand of words. It's my graduation photo, my late dad used to keep this with him all the time..Whenever he miss me he will look at this photo (I used to live away from my family).Since this is his favorite photo, so I kept it all the time with me after he's pass away.

The fourth precious stuff would be my phone casing. Off course it stick like super glue on my phone! kkkkk, it protect my phone all the time. Who give it to me?? Hmm let just keep it as a secret :)

How these fourth precious stuffs keep make me smile even though I'm having problems? Sometimes when we were having a problem we want to share with others but due to certain reasons we can't share it to them. It's not that we didn't trust  them, it's just they might be busy with other things so we don't wanna burden them, or we don't want them to feel worry about us.

Due to those reasons, even though when I'm having a problem and need some support I will just stare at those four precious stuff.Staring at those four stuffs makes me felt as if they were around me and support me by all their meant. Even though they live far distance, and I knew that my dad is not going to be alive again they are around me all the time. They cheer me up, so I should stand up myself and be strong. Only myself can beat my own problems. :) Till then, find your own way to cheer you up even if you think that this going to be the end or my world is finish! Enjoy your life guys. :D and for those four person thank you for giving me such a precious stuff! Love you!

Travel to South Korea on Chuseok day!

Hi readers,
It's been so long since my last post, I hope you guys were in the pink of health and happy always :)
Today I felt I wanna write about Korea.These days when I heard anyone going to South Korea,I felt excited and wishing I can be there too! Oh how I miss Korea badly!! Visiting Korea on one of their most-celebrated holidays is not a wrong choice.However travelers need to double check before making a decision to travel.

Since Chuseok day is held on at Korea, most of Korean were on leave and gather with their family members to celebrate it. What is Chuseok day?? Chuseok day is originally known as "Hangawi" which is a major harvest festival and celebrated on 15th day of 8th month of Lunar calendar. Chuseok day will be celebrating for three days. Most of Korean will going back to their hometown for gathering with their family and relatives. Due to this, normally there would be congested traffics, sold out for bus and train tickets. For travelers, they must aware of this situation in order to prevent them from stuck at one place and it would be such a waste of time.

Before visiting any place during Chuseok days, travelers need to check whether the place is open or close and figure out on how to go to that place. Below I attached some useful link for travelers to check:

Chuseok Holiday Schedules
Chuseok Holiday in Modern Day Korea


I hope those link will help travelers to plan their Korea trip. Need more information regarding Korea? Feel free to ask or drop comments. :) Till then happy travelling and Happy Chuseok day for Koreans.

Beautiful Moment!

Dear Readers,
I believe everyone have their own beautiful moment in their life, be it their wedding ceremony, honeymoon or their child born day (for those who's married), graduation day, travelling or just ordinary daily day moment. It can be funny moment, embarrassing moment, sweet moment or sad moment. How can sad moment be a beautiful moment?? I know people might think am I out of my mind for telling sad moment can be a beautiful moment, but lets think out of box!

Personally, beautiful moment is something that will stick on our mind and heart forever, that is why I include sad moment is one of beautiful moment. People always says look forward and never look back as we can't reversed the time. All moment become history. However for me even if it were history I always cherish those moment all the time. Sometimes when we get upset, tired or lonely why don't we sit back and remember those moment, by remembering those moment sometimes we put a smile on our face unknowingly.

If we upset or mad with our family members or our love ones normally we tend to treat them bad. How can we prevent that to be happen? By remember those beautiful moment it can erase all the bad things about them. Isn't it beautiful?? For sad moment, if we think about it over and over again eventually we will get the answer, the answer could be "I need to improve myself to be a better person or it could be "luckily I've been through this and it taught me to be a stronger person."

How about a quarrel, if someone choose quarrel to be one of his or her beautiful moment, what is the impact of this? Sometimes people didn't realized it, when we having a quarrel and when we back at ease, we tend to be more close than before. Isn't it wonderful??

P/S: We are the one who decide whether to take it positively or negatively. Till then cherish everything around us, beautiful moment stays on our mind and heart forever!

Friendly Person vs Being Friendly

During an interview session, I believe most of people would state that friendly and easy-going would be some of their characters, but is it true?? What is the different between friendly person and being friendly? Those words seems familiar and similar isn't it?

However from my perspective friendly person and being friendly is two different characters. Everybody must be wondered why I says so.. Being friendly is a common sense, but friendly person is a gift and not everybody can have it.

Need some explanation?? Let me give some situation and from these situation may be readers can differentiate which one is being friendly and which one is friendly person. While waiting for a MRT, Alia were sitting alone and listening to her I-pod, then out of blue someone come and start talking to Alia, they keep talking until the MRT come and eventually become a friend.While for situation B, Heather was waiting for her boyfriend and she saw an old lady sit next to her. Heather start a conversation with an old lady and asking where she wanna go and the conversation keep continue until her boyfriend come. Readers, can you differentiate which one is being friendly and friendly person?

Still clueless about these?? As I told earlier, friendly person is a gift and not everybody can have it. If you love to observe people around you, you can differentiate those two characters. Normally friendly person will have sort of smiley face. Even if they were not smiling but their face showing as if they were smiling, or having sweet-faced. While being friendly is our behavior, which is our initiative to start conversation with others.
For those who were gifted to be a friendly person, always thankful for this special advantage as not everyone can have it, while for those who were not gifted, try to initiate any conversation and never think that your act is such a gimcrack.

Till then let's be friend with anyone, regardless color, faith or age. :)

Think before you speak!

I live at my hometown and working at rural area. Even though it was rural area but I am thankful for it existing, without this rural area my hometown would probably less develop. What is so special about this rural area?? Well, this rural area were never fail to attract people from around the world for every single day. Less infrastructure such as bank, shop, transportation system and limited channel for communication especially internet line is not excuses for it to fail attract people, this place is one of the jewel for my country.

Apart from infrastructure, there is ONE thing that really need to be IMPROVED in order to survive. This one things is not related to tangible items though. I know everybody might thinking what is it. The thing that need to be IMPROVED or CHANGE is its LOCAL MENTALITY. I agree that some of them (especially folks) were not having a properly education but for me that's not a reason for them to think that they can do anything.

This mentality is not only can influence their youngsters but also destroy their future. There are rules and regulations that we need to follow but somehow some of them denied it and telling everyone that "You are just an outsiders, since you were in our place you need to agree with us." Let me ask; if they telling you to commit a crime do we need to follow them?? I believe sane people will definitely disagree with that because we are aware with rules and regulations. However for them,"its our place so we can simply do anything, without any fear of having troubles later."

Some of them also thinking that outsiders were coming and trying to taking their wealth. Is it by running a business around their place is taking their wealth?? From my perspective they were deadly wrong, THEY are the one that should be THANKFUL as we running our business around their place, they get a chance to work, provide good education for their child and having secure financial. THEY should not forget, without us as outsiders there would be NO development around their village. This "kampung style" should be CHANGE and I wish they would realized about this before it is too late...

I am proud to be MALAYSIAN

As I am working in hospitality sector, I met tourists from all over the world almost every single day. Whenever I got a chance to talk to them I will ask them "hows Malaysia or What do you like the most about Malaysia?" Lots of reasons came out from them but most of them agreed that "We envy your country, seeing  a diversity of culture at Malaysia is one of the best experience ever! Seeing Malaysian live in harmony,sharing same value, cuisine, cultural make us feel as we were in heaven and thinking of coming back again in the future." When I heard these from them I feel very proud and would love to share it to an entire universe! ^_^

I believe as Malaysian each of us would agreed that we were lucky to be born here, we shared same value, same cuisine and what else we could ask for more? I can enjoy my Tosey(Indian cuisine) for my breakfast, I can enjoy Asam Laksa (Malay cuisine) for my lunch and Char Kuey Teow (Chinese cuisine) for my dinner without having any trouble here and that's the best for me. :D

I still remembered when I am on travelling, meeting Malaysian abroad and we were exciting greeting to each other just makes me think if we were at home!! :D For Malaysian wherever you go, lets spread around about our lovely country and be proud to be Malaysian!  I love Malaysia!! 

Happy 55th National Day!

Unconditional LOVE

When we talk about LOVE, normally people will focus on love between lovers, but for me LOVE is universal and it can be with anything. I still remember long time ago, a good friend of mine telling me; never LOVE someone conditionally. If you LOVE someone because of their looks, good looks will eventually fade away, if you LOVE someone for their wealth, it can be finished, if you LOVE someone because of their career it can be vanished if he or she make even a simple mistake. However, these days its hard to LOVE people unconditionally due to an environment and so on but that doesn't mean everyone must agreed with me. I've seen a lots of unconditional LOVE around me lately. People must be wonder how am I ensure its unconditionally LOVE, well I am writing these based with my own experience.Anyway do you guys knows what is unconditionally LOVE or real LOVE is?? Real LOVE means caring about the happiness of another person without any thought for what we might get for ourselves. Have you seen your kids, nieces or nephews LOVE someone unconditionally? when we asking them why do they LOVE him or her, their answer would be "I don't know" and the funny part is they never meet him or her!! I've got lots of friends through Facebook but I've got only one very close person and we live far distance, don't get me wrong I am not going to talk about us but I will talk about my kids (nieces and nephews) unconditional love towards him and vice versa. Before this my kids never meet him in reality, they just seeing each other through Skype and chatting on Facebook but somehow the bonding between them were very strong. :)  Can't you imagine a two years old girl can recognize him even though she couldn't speak clearly, :p so funny isn't it?? A six years old and a four years old girls fight with each other telling that they wanna marry him when they grown up! I was like speechless for a while..hahah.. :P These days first things my kids would do once they arrived at my house is to ask whether did he online?Sometimes I have to tell my kids that he was too busy, but that doesn't make them to stop loving him, they will asking me to record their videos for him or at least taking their picture.Some of them even draw a pictures for him or write a letter for him and ask me to post to him. :D My kids willing to do all these without expecting anything from him and didn't feel it as a duty. They were happy doing all these for him :) With all those efforts they were not only close to him but also being close to me. Its' such an amazing thing for me as before this they were not talking to me much, people telling me if you have money you can buy anything but for LOVE and TRUST money doesn't includes. On the other hand, his love towards my kids is undeniable as well, even though he's so busy but he still allocate some times to watch my kids videos or chat; Skype with them. I really appreciate for what he's doing. Sometimes he advised my kids on how to behave or choosing their path on their study. :) Not only that he also bought toys and candies for my kids, and my kids were very happy to received all those :) Recently he got leaves and decided to come at my home town for meeting my kids. We were very happy for his visit. At the very beginning most of my kids were very shy towards him, but slowly they try to adapt with him and they playing almost half day!! I can see true happiness in each face. Even though it was a short trip but everybody enjoy it. :) I wish all of us can meet again someday :)

I'm back!

Due to my hectic schedules and lots of things happening around me its been so long since I left this. Here we go again, as Holy blessing month of Ramadhan is come near to the end I felt I still need to catch up lots of things as we never know whether we still have a chance to meet this holy blessing month in the future, but still its never to late to buckle up. In this holy blessing month as a Muslim, we were encourage to prayer and recite al-Quran a lot. Sometimes due to our busy daily schedule we tend to forget about it but when we were facing difficulties only then we will realize we need a guide. When it comes to a guide people must be thinking a person but as a Muslim we should put Allah as our priority guide, let Allah listen to your problem and ask Him for a guide. Someone asking me before, whether am I ready to move to somewhere and embrace my Islam to the community there, at the beginning I think about it roughly but when I heard a reason, it makes me think twice. However before making a decision, I myself need to learn a lot about it and everything in between. Anyway personally I feel thankful to Allah for giving me a second thought about this, and to the person who asking that question thank you, Insya'llah one day I will move there and embrace my Islam.Have a bless and great day ahead everyone. :)

Everything happen for a reason

PROBLEMS, this word always haunted us every single day, it may arise as a simple or could be in a very complex situation and need a tough decision to be made in order to move on.  Without problem our daily life would be such a boring and dull routine. When we talk about problem one thing would appear on our mind, "problem means negative". However, did anyone realize that sometimes problem happen due from the positive things as well.

Everybody must be confused and wonder why am I saying this, well let me share one situation here. Arianna is a very bright girl who used to be so confident about everything, as she is a very bright girl some other girls would envy her. Those envy girls always looking for Arianna's loop and try to influence others. Arianna didn't do anything wrong but her positive attitudes contributes some problems to her.  In order to solve this Arianna need to think about how she perceived the situation at the very beginning, if she look at it in negative side automatically it would turn out to be negatively but if she look at it from positive side it will become positive.

How to turn negative things to become positive? Let say you were good at something and people always talk about it, it may be in a positive tone or could be in negative tone depend on how people perceived it, people may badmouth about your skills saying as if you were showing off but actually they just being jealous as they were not good at it; to shut their mouth, its easy get close to them then ask them whether did they need help?? If they really need help they will ask you,meaning you going to do good thing (teaching them) if they not eventually they will stop badmouth as they feel ashamed on you, and you also win here! :)
Till then keep thinking positive no mater how negative it was because everything happen for a reason. 

What is so good about Facebook???

Nowadays almost everyone get interacted with social network such as Facebook, Twitter, Tagged and etc. Some people might thinking what is the power of this site and why everyone love to get involved with it so much?? Some might thinking why would I spent so much time in this, its virtually its not real? Why should I posted what I felt and tell entire of the world what I've been go through..

Let's we think it in positive way :), Facebook motto is "connecting people", why don't we used it wisely. For me through Facebook I get chances to meet lots of very good people which I never expected before :D. Through Facebook we can close some gaps between each other, even we live far distance (different countries) but through Facebook we connected to each other everyday. When we got a chance we travel and meet each other, we enjoying so much fun together :). Not only that sometime we learn from each other. Different people got different perspective but through Facebook we managed to close those gap isn't it wonderful?? I might be bias through this statement but let us think for a seconds, anything if we use it wisely; in a right way the impact would be in a positive way , its just how we use it, you choose in positive way it turn out to be positive if you used it wrongly then it turn to be negatively. Till then happy connecting people :)

TRUST vs LOVE

It's been so long since my last post, I was so busy these days..Lots of things happening around me and every single day I keep thinking how should I express it into words.Today I decided to write something on my own blog plus trying to finish my words with one of my close friend as I promise him to share my experiences regarding my spring trip, I believe I can do it :)

What am I going to write today?? Last time I wrote a short notes at my Facebook, LOVE vs TRUST. People have their own perception regarding this, if you were given a choice which one are you going to choose? My word doesn't change, I still choosing trust, for me TRUST is the important keys in any friendship or relationship, but its not easy to gain TRUST especially from strangers. People telling me, we can fall in love in one second but for TRUST it may takes some time, so when we gain TRUST from someone we should appreciate it because once the TRUST is broken then its not easy to gain it back or if we are able to gain it back its not the same as the previous one.

When TRUST is build between two, even if there is a mistake or misunderstanding and we tend to get mad; try to hold our angry by thinking about TRUST. Its a good way to manage your emotional and keep thinking positive. In short, we can simply fall in LOVE and we must remember as it simply happen, it also easy to fade away compare to TRUST, its hard to gain trust and its also hard to broken :)

Never Underestimate Any Relationship

In our daily life, friendship or relationship may begin in any circumstances; sometimes its may begin with quarrel or unexpected thing but that doesn't mean we can underestimate those relationship. I was born in a very big family and I love every one in it so much :).

Last year when I was busy planning for my spring trip I experienced unexpected situation where I got virtual family :), thank to Facebook as it allowed me to meet two great person  and expand my family even though its virtually. We talk to each other and give advices when necessary, even though we live far distance and we come from different back ground,culture its not a problem for us as long three of us understand each other well. Some of my friends asking me, why should I care so much as its only virtually, my answer is simple virtually or reality, sincerity of heart and trust only counts. Its not easy to gain trust from strangers especially via social networking site but we did it  :).

Since I knew them I changed a lot and become a better person :). Ironically we just known virtually but the impact from these relationship can be seen in reality life. I am very happy with it,these days my real families were close to me and I enjoy each moment of it :). I am so thankful for knowing my virtual family, without you guys I might not be able to enjoy these beautiful reality family moment.

Thank you so much :) we did exchange gifts to each other but that's not an issue, for me the most important things here is be there when needed and value this relationship :),never underestimate it. I already met with one of my virtual family and looking forward to meet my virtual mom soon. I wish three of us can spend time together in the future and may these relationship bloom forever :)

p/s: I heart and saranghaeyo you guys a lot :)